You’ve probably heard the rumors – Geminis are the worst zodiac sign to date. And you know what? The astrology haters are onto something for once. But as a Gemini, I have to come clean.

  • We can be total nightmares in relationships.
  • Our personalities are complex.
  • We want space and togetherness at the same time. We’re super social but also loners.
  • We get bored easily and can’t sit still.
  • We have no chill.
  • We overthink everything and analyze you to death.
  • We play mind games without realizing it.
  • We have dueling personalities that confuse ourselves and our partners.

Let me stop here. I know everything I just said about dating a Gemini probably sounds like a lot to take in. But that’s part of what makes us so fascinating. Being in a relationship with a Gemini may feel like a rollercoaster ride at times, but trust me, it’s more than worth it in the end.

Geminis Need A Lot of Stimulation And Action

Geminis really need to keep busy and stimulated. Sitting around too long will make them antsy, so if you’re dating one, just know it’ll be nonstop activity. Their perfect date involves trying new restaurants, catching movies, partying it up, traveling places, and having deep conversations for hours.

When boredom sets in, they might get cranky or even mad. So if you want one to stick around, make sure you’re joining in on the fun with them or get used to them not hanging as much as you’d like.

Geminis are also all about living in the moment and new experiences. They want to try everything! If staying home is more your speed, dating a Gemini could get you out of your comfort zone. But if you love sports, adventures, or just staying busy all the time, they might be a great match for you!

They Can Be Wishy-Washy

Geminis can be a handful sometimes. One moment, they’re all into you and the relationship, the next, they seem checked out. It’s just their nature, they have trouble sticking to one thing for too long.

If you’re with a Gemini, give them space when they need it. Don’t take it personally when they get distant, their moods change like the wind. But when they commit to you, watch out – they know how to have fun and be super devoted, too.

The truth is, if a Gemini wasn’t feeling you, they’d tell you straight up. They hate messing with people’s emotions, so if they back off for a bit, don’t freak. They just need some me time; it doesn’t mean they don’t want to be with you anymore. That’s just how Geminis roll.

Geminis Love Playing Mind Games

Dating a Gemini means you’re in for an adventure. These twins just love keeping things fresh and exciting in a relationship. Sometimes, they’ll shower you with all kinds of affection and compliments, but othertimes, you won’t hear from them for hours – just leaving you wondering what’s up. But don’t let it get to you, it’s all just part of their fun personality.

We Geminis are total flirts, too. We’ll be batting our eyes at you, cracking jokes, giving you sly smiles and looks – all to keep you on your toes! And just as you start to feel comfortable, we’ll pull back again. It’s our way of showing care while still keeping our independence.

The good news is now that you know what we’re like, we won’t be able to mess with your head as much! You’ll know what kind of ride you signed up for with us, Geminis.


Geminis are notorious for their indecisiveness. They always wanna look at every single option before committing to anything. Their curiosity is off the charts, too. They’re always open to new possibilities so it’s tough for them to just pick one thing.

When you’re dating a Gemini, give them space to think things through. Don’t pressure them to decide where to eat or what movie to watch right away. Their brain is coming up with so many options that it takes a minute to narrow it down.

And even after they choose something, there’s a chance they’ll second-guess themselves. They may wonder if another choice would’ve been better or feel like they’re missing out. So make sure to reassure your Gemini date that they made a great call and you’re excited to roll with their decision. Or give them a few options to pick from so they feel good about their choice.

Friendly or Flirty?

The astro twins can be pretty charming when you first meet them. Their friendliness draws people in, but don’t go thinking it means they’re into you romantically. They just enjoy socializing and being around others. Unless they explicitly ask you out on a date, they just want to chat and spend time with you as friends.

And if you’re dating a Gemini and hate that they’re friendly with everyone, take a step back. Are they really flirting or just being themselves? That’s how Geminis are, you can’t change that. Trust me, if they were flirting with others, they wouldn’t be with you. They just like people and having fun conversations.

Sometimes, though, their friendly nature means people end up taking advantage of them. Their helpfulness gets used more than appreciated.

Bottom Line

With Geminis, it’s never going to be dull! With their two sides always battling it out, you’ll never know quite what you’re going to get. Trying to plan anything long-term with them may seem impossible..but where there is a will, there is a way!